“True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.”
― Arthur Ashe
When I was around eight or nine years old, I had the honor of meeting Arthur Ashe. Some of you may not know who he was but Arthur Ashe was the first African American male to win the US Open tennis championship, Wimbledon and become ranked number one in the world of tennis. He was also a big advocate for bringing tennis to the inner city. I used to take lessons at the Arthur Ashe Tennis Center in Boston. In 1988 Arthur Ashe contracted AIDS through a blood transfusion from his second bypass surgery back in 1983. I read his book called “Days of Grace” which is his autobiography. It is an amazing story about a man who gave so much back to the community. He was outspoken against apartheid in South Africa, and he became a voice for those who suffered from AIDS and HIV and started foundation to raise money for research. Arthur Ashe used his name and influence not just to better his life but to make a difference in the lives of others. Even late in his illness he found the strength to speak up for those who had no voice.
You may ask why I am writing about Arthur Ashe. I am writing about him because to me he is what honoring dignity is truly about. He had goals about being the best person he could be, but he also believed we have a purpose and a responsibility to help others. It took me a long time and many mistakes to realize what my true goal and purpose is. I want to give back because so much has been given to me. I became a nurse because I wanted to make a difference. I went into leadership because I wanted to give others the opportunity to be successful. As the Diversity Officer for Berkshire Health System, I want to be the voice for those who need to be heard.
“The best way to judge a life is to ask yourself, “Did I make the best use of the time I had?”
― Arthur Ashe
I look back on my life and I realize for much of it I did not make the best use of my time on Earth but each day I work to change that. I have been given an amazing opportunity to make a difference. I will not waste a minute of it. I have a purpose statement I read every day and every night.
Morning: “Today what will you do to make a difference in the lives of others?”
Night: “What have you done today to make a difference in the lives of others?”
These statements are my checks and balances. They give my life purpose of more than just living day to day. The greatest gift is knowing that you could change someone’s life for the better and that you can give someone hope that there is something truly amazing for them in a world that can often seem cold. When there is darkness, I strive to be the light. Honoring dignity is that light and I will let it shine wherever I am.
“No power on this earth can destroy the thirst for human dignity.” ‒ Nelson Mandela
Dignity Freedom Fighter 
I remember Arthur Ashe well , an extraordinary human. I had forgotten his AIDS story. Thank you, Charles, for reminding me of that equally profound impact he made.
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