Today I would like to take the time to remember the person who was the foundation and rock of the Redd Family Phyllis King. Tomorrow would have been her 81st birthday. We love you and we miss you.
Today’s dignity post was not written by me. I want to share a young man’s speech and his view on what leadership is. He was appointed as one of four student athlete leaders for the state of Massachusetts, and he talks about what his role is.
“Good evening, everyone
My role on the committee is to teach our student embassadors and student athletes around the state of Massachusetts how to become better leaders. So, leadership in sports is more than just strategy and skill. It’s about inspiring, motivating, and setting the example for others. Today I want to share some key principles of leadership that can guide you both on and off the field.
Lead by example: Your actions speak louder than words. Whether it’s pushing through tough practices or supporting a teammate, your behavior sets the standard for others. Show commitment, discipline, and intergrety and your teammates will follow your lead. Remember, leadership is often about doing what’s right even when it’s difficult.
Embrace teamwork: No great achievement is ever accomplished alone. A true leader recognizes the strength of the team and values every member’s contribution. Foster an environment of mutual respect and colaboration. Celebrate each other’s successes and support each other through challenges. When you lift each other up, you build a stronger, more cohesive team.
Communicate Effectively: Clear and open communication is crucial. As leaders you need to articulate your vision and expectations while also being open to feedback. Listen actively to your teammates’ concerns and ideas. Effective communication helps build trust and ensures everyone is working towards a common goal.
Lead with passion: Passion is contagious. When you approach your sport with enthusiasm and dedication, it ignites a similar fire in those around you. Be the person who brings energy to the practice field and motivation to the locker room. Your passion will drive the team to achieve greatness.
Last but not least, Leadership is not a title but a behavior. It’s about making a difference and having a positive impact. As athletes, you have the unique opportunity to influence and inspire through your actions and attitudes. Embrace these principles and you will not only become better players but also better leaders.” Anthony C. Redd Senior Wahconah High School, Dalton, MA.
My 18-year-old son gave that speech. He is a senior in high school, and I have had the honor to see first-hand that he lives these principles. He is 18 and realizes what many of us adults are trying to figure out. He wants to be a teacher. Whatever school gets him will be blessed. I say this as a person who has held leadership positions. I have had successes and failures. It took me many years to learn what my son has grasped.
Anthony, I hope you know that you are a leader and many of us adults can learn from you. Stay strong and stay focused. Your family is proud of you. Nani, Popi, Nana Lu, Grandpa Haly, and Grandma Phyllis, although they are not here, would be proud of the person you have become.
Charles Redd RN
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